Living With Alcoholic Rage and Narcism

 I want to touch base on a few issues to reiterate why my ex is a narcissist.

When my ex was told to leave one of his parting shots was "I am the reason you write." During the whole time we were together my ex did not write anything nor did he go to college to write like I did.

Telling my daughter I would come on another day for her daughter's birthday because my ex was going to be there is not "weaponizing" the grandchildren.  It is protecting myself from a narcissist for whom I have a restraining order.  The ex is "weaponizing" the children to use (yet another) family occasion to have at me. Protecting oneself from a narcissist is not being a narcissist.

Smacking the right side of my face because my ex did not like my answer is a narcissist.  Doing it while drunk is also an alcoholic rage event.  My right eye was twitching before surgery from my ex's smack across the right side of my face.

Having one of the children visit another child just prior to Mother's Day in order to create a situation over something I ultimately did NOT do is a narcissist.  Ruined Mother's Day with the sibling in question. 

For my youngest daughter to tell everyone that she is done with her sibling's rage issues, but expecting me to put up with their father's very same issue (maybe worse) is just plain ignorant. 

These are just a few of the thousands of times my ex has created situations that demonstrate his narcissistic tendencies.